Monthly Archive for March, 2009

World’s Most Dangerous Places Continued

Speaking of the world’s most dangerous places, I found this interesting tidbit on Forbes.com:

“In fact, even though the 15 most dangerous countries span four continents, they all share one trait: They were once European colonies.”

Yup.

Here’s a list that doesn’t name South Africa at all, but the U.S. makes the list, with this description of our beloved country:

“As a quick convenience store run in the nite will reveal to anyone, this is a dangerous country. The people are heavily armed, & prone to random outbursts of violence. Not a good combination.”

Yup to that, too.

At the same time, I usually feel pretty safe. Or at least, I did, until I discovered the government Megan’s Law database of sexual predators, and discovered that there are two sexual predators living just down the street from me!

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World’s Most Dangerous Cities

As another procrastination technique this morning, I’ve been doing a search on google to find out what people consider to be the world’s most dangerous cities, as well as the world’s most dangeorus countries. Admittedly, this is not a scientific exercise. There seem to be many opinions out there, and several newspapers report varying statistics. Maybe somewhere, there’s a very official list, but in lieu of discovering that, it’s fun to speculate.

Most Dangerous Country

South Africa always ends up on the list as #2 for world’s most dangerous countries. (#1 spot seems to usually go to Colombia or Jamaica.) This is very comforting, as I’m not going to either Jamaica or Colombia, but I am about to leave for South Africa.

Most Dangerous Cities

I am not surprised that Johannesburg always makes the list of the top ten most dangerous cities in the world. Jozi is a city that scares the hell out of me, too, which is why I stay with a family when I go there. I don’t have any interest in hotels, renting a car, travelling without purpose, not knowing where I’m going.

But I did find several other surprises. Ciudad Juarez–a city I know well because I grew up in El Paso, a stone’s throw away from Juarez–has started creeping up to take the #1 or #2 spot. It even outranks Baghdad! Joburg seems to hover around the bottom middle of the list. And thank God, neither Cape Town nor Durban show up at all.

The most surprising list of all was this one. Maclean’s apparently ranked London as #10 and Saskatoon, Canada as #9. Really???? Detroit was #5, beating Johannesburg by 2 spots, which is listed as the 7th most dangerous city in the world. This website tries to explain why the cities received the rankings they did. London has apparently had a huge increase in knife violence in the past couple of years, while Saskatoon has a lot of aggravated assault and robbery, sexual assault, and homicide problems. The world’s #8 most dangerous city, Norilsk RUSSIA, has been closed to foreign visitors since 2001. Crazy. Oddly, the world’s #3 most dangerous city, Linfen CHINA, is dangerous because of air pollution. Yes, not crime. But if you go there, your lungs will get fouled up and you’ll never be the same. Interesting….This list ranks Ciudad Juarez as the world’s #2 most dangerous city and that, of course, has to be because of the drug war tearing that city apart. The world’s #1 most dangerous city is Mogadishu. Okay, glad I’m not going there!!!

Now, to stop procrastinating and to get back to work….

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Flaws on the Face

I’m currently revising 50 pages of my novel WITCHES, HEALERS, AND THIS THING CALLED THE FUTURE for a publishing company that’s interested.

 

I have to laugh, because whenever I need to start revising something, I do the same thing everytime. It’s routine:

 

First, I have to find just the right music to listen to. Okay, good, Emily Wells. She’s perfect to write to.

 

Now it’s a pressing need to check if anybody has sent me messages on MySpace, my blog, or in email. Ooh, look, somebody friended me on Facebook—who IS that? Somebody I haven’t seen or heard from since ohmigod COLLEGE. How many freaking years has that been? How old am I again?

 

Suddenly, I need to examine my face up close—as if the flaws on my face are easier to deal with than the flaws on the page. This morning as I examine my face, I find minute traces of the chile colorado sauce I cooked last night. Obviously, forgot to wash my face last night. Must do now! Can’t wait another second!

 

Yep, the routine is always the same. I’ll probably through a similar process again in fifteen minutes.

 

It’s amazing how many blogs I post when I’m revising my novels….

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Paperbacks v. Hardbacks

Knopf brought The Confessional out in paperback last January, but until today, I hadn’t seen a copy. I still had enough of the hardbacks lying around that I didn’t feel a need to have the paperbacks on hand. I wanted to see them, sure, but until recently, ordering copies was at the bottom of my list of things to do . But because I’m leaving for South Africa soon and will be staying with a lot of different families, I wanted something light to pack to give as gifts. (Okay, sure, maybe that’s egotistical, to give your own book as a gift. On the other hand, if I had a writer staying with me, a copy of their book is what I’d prefer to chocolates or a trinket from San Francisco….) So I ordered fifty copies and they arrived today. I think I was expecting that it would be the same size as the hardback, just with a paper cover. But no, it is that really tiny paperback size, the same size as paperback detective novels or cheap romances. It was fun to see how compact it is compared to the hardback–in fact, it was almost as exciting as seeing the hardback in my hands the first time around.

So if you’ve been wanting to order a copy but couldn’t afford the $17  for the hardback, you can order the paperback for only $7. (I think it’s even cheaper than that on Amazon.) Or if you just want to help a struggling writer by boosting her sales record, that would be great too….

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I’m a coward

I admit, I’m a coward.

I hide when the JWs knock at my door. I tiptoe away, hoping they don’t know I peeked at them through the eyehole before deciding not to answer the door.

At the moment, I am putting up with tejano music from my upstairs neighbors, so loud that it literally shakes the walls whenever the bass note hits. This has been going on, off and on, all week. But have I gone upstairs and told them, “Really, this is completely rude behavior. There are four other apartment units in this complex, and we shouldn’t spend 3 hours on a Saturday morning listening to your music like this.” But have I done it? WILL I do it?

Maybe not. I’m a coward AND I leave for South Africa in two weeks AND we hope that Chris will be moving us into a new place while I’m gone….So I won’t have to deal with it for much longer.

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The Blue Group

Remember when you were in first grade and you wanted to show the teacher that you were the best reader in class, so when she called you up to see how well you read, you read like you were sprinting toward the finish line, the last legs of the race, just going as fast as fast as fast as fast as you possibly could, galloping through the words on the page, ending triumphantly on the final word and waiting for her judgment call? Continue reading ‘The Blue Group’

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House of Hope

Hey, for those of you who are interested in reading my article on El Paso’s Catholic crisis pregnancy center, House of Hope, it’s both in print (March issue of Revista Maryknoll) and also online here. But it’s in Spanish. Hope you can read Spanish!!!

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I swear I didn’t tell my girlfriend she’s fat

Last night, I was talking to a friend of mine who prefaced the conversation with, “I swear I didn’t tell my girlfriend she was fat….”  Continue reading ‘I swear I didn’t tell my girlfriend she’s fat’

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Never Satisfied

never-satisfiedWhen I was eighteen or nineteen, my then boyfriend gave me a children’s book called Never Satisfied as a gift. On each page of the book, the narrator keeps complaining to his friend that “nothing ever happens around here.” Meanwhile, in the background, the readers watch as somebody starts throwing animals and furniture–a couch, a piano–out of the second story window of a building. The narrator never gets it, never sees all the exciting things happening all around him. Rather, he just keeps complaining that life is boring. I got the gentle message that Tommy was sending, that I was so focused on the life I *wanted*, on my goals and dreams, that I never got around to appreciating the life I already had.

I wish I could say that seeing the truth changed how I lived or how I looked at the world. But it didn’t. To this day, “never satisfied’ describes the emotional core of my life.

Now, there are a lot of ways that you could interpret the phrase “never satisfied.” Some women always want more wealth, more things, expensive jewlery, flashy material items. Continue reading ‘Never Satisfied’

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Angsty music…and music that gets me off the angst kick

After my post, “The Emotion that Defines You,” my friend and editor Casey Hill over at New Pages asked me to list some angsty music I listen to. Turns out, Casey is driven by angst, too. Or I could be speaking out of turn–maybe he just likes music like that. So, Casey, here’s the music that represents this hungry artist in all moods. Continue reading ‘Angsty music…and music that gets me off the angst kick’

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